After your divorce is over how do you want to feel?
While it may seem weird to start with a vision of your future, often times its the best way to figure out how to proceed now. Collaborative divorce participants are concerned with how the divorce process itself affects the family members. How you feel after the divorce is an important part of a collaborative divorce.
Once you have a clear vision of your future, you can evaluate how your actions now help you achieve your vision. And of course, if the action you're thinking about does not move you toward the vision of your future, you can decide whether it's worth taking.
Divorce can be a grueling process emotionally. Holding a vision of your future can help you move through the process more smoothly. Will it be easy? Probably not. But with a clear vision for your future after divorce, you can move through the divorce process knowing that you are working toward your goals.
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